One of the things I encourage most and try to provide on this blog is education about sex toys. While it should be as easy as walking into your local sex shop (which should be friendly and inclusive), and picking up whatever you fancy (because everything is body-safe), and then taking it home to properly use right off the bat (since you have had a proper sex education), the chances are that this is not the case. Good, inclusive, and ethical sex stores are still a rarity, and non-body safe toys are still made in the bucket-load. Sex education is minimal, and I highly doubt there are many schools that include anything about sex toys, or possibly masturbation at all, in their teachings. But, if you have found my blog and are reading this, it is likely you’ve already began learning about what brands are good and what materials are safe. So, today I want to talk about what happens when you actually buy the toy, and are then left wondering how exactly you are supposed to use it.
