I Love Pleasure

Everybody does. It is something so natural and universal that we all take part in, yet for some reason it’s locked away behind closed doors, rather than celebrated. Society’s refusal to discuss or acknowledge something that affects all our lives has resulted in a general lack of sex education and sex positivity around the world.

But I want to help change that. Sex and pleasure should be celebrated. If we open up and actually talk about it not only will it result in us all having better sex (and who doesn’t want that?), but also safer and more intimate sex.

If you are a sex-positive person (or want to be) this blog is for you.

One of my favourite gateways to pleasure is sex toys. They empower us by helping us to understand what our bodies enjoy, which is one of the best things you can do for your sex life.

Sex toys today, however, are a 30 billion dollar industry. So how are you suppose to find one that you’ll like? That’s where I come in.

My Mission

  • To always provide completely honest reviews, to ensure you know exactly what is worth your money.
  • To help spread education about sex toys around the globe, but particularly in Australia.
  • To seek out those who hold similar values to me and help support them through my blog.

My Values

Who Am I?

My name is Grace (she / they) and I am a twenty-something sex-positive feminist from Melbourne, Australia. I am bisexual and non-binary, and I have been in a monogamous relationship with my cis male partner for almost a decade.

I started this blog shortly after buying my first sex toy, but without the proper education to know what not to buy, I got sick from it. After that I dedicated myself to providing reviews of safe products and helping to educate those around me in the hopes that no one would have to go through what I did.

Since then I have been featured in the Sexual Health Expo Magazine, regularly rank in Kinkly’s Top 10 Sex Toy Review Blogs, and have written reviews for hundreds of products all over the web. I have also created partnerships with the most ethical manufacturers and retailers of adult goods around.

When I’m not working on the blog, you can find me at my Twitter or Instagram. In my time off I enjoy cooking, D&D, craft beer and watching a good science fiction movie.

Wondering where to start?

First, check out my body information page to learn about my vulva, vagina and butt, so you know what my preferences are and how similar they are your own.

Then check out my toy-box to see if I’ve reviewed something in particular that you’re after. Or alternatively take a look at my review categories or Pinterest to see if something catches your eye.

If you’d like some recommendations, why not have a look at my annual Top 10 Sex Toys list or find out what my current favourite sex toys are?

Finally, once you know what you’re after, it’s time to head to my where to buy page for a list of my recommended retailers, dropping by my discounts page first though to ensure you’re getting the savings you deserve.


If you are a business looking to work with me, please first read my policies page, and then head on over to my contact page.